How to approach a girl first time

Talking to a girl for the first time, may end up with a very bad experience if you are really unaware about the way to approach them. So, to build up the strong and healthy relation you must follow some algorithm.

Basically, the approach can be divided into three approaches

1. Starting a conversation:

·         Catch her Eye – the step refers to making a proper and healthy eye contact with the girl you wish to talk. That means you look at her, you smile, and you show your presence before her. It is always better that you must know the name of the girl that you are approaching to invoke a better initial conversation. Definitely she will reply you back. Moreover, if you having any common friend, that will certainly help you to approach her in a better way. So go along with them.

·         Introduce yourself – Once you approach her, it’s very important to start with the introduction so that the person you approach must know about you and start taking interest in your conversation. That can be said like “Hey, my name is Ankit”.

·         Be Yourself- This become very important when you into conversation. Don’t try to be a kind of HERIOC character. Seriously that only happens in fictions and movies. Don’t over boost yourself that will sound awful. So positive gesture to that girl.

·         Smile – Smile creates the flow of strong positivity in the environment. A strong electromagnetic waves flows that gives the impression to the person that you are really enjoying the company and hope to carry further the conversation. Smile is always the way to win hearts.

·         Stay away from personal stuff – Stay away from talking about the personal stuffs when you are conversing for the first time. It will be like nonsense question to ask like “Do you have any boyfriend?”.

·         Open with the light topic – Starting with the simple topics like the things or the events that’s happening around you might be an intelligent approach to carry on the conversation with her. It can be the things that you may share together, weather around you, traffic etc.

2. Making her feel Special:

·         Find the common ground – to make your conversation go on board it has to be something that is shared common among both. It can be like movies, novels, music, dance, hobbies etc.

·         Make eye contact while you are talking- eye contact doesn’t mean you keep on gazing at her or make eye to eye contact. That will make her uncomfortable. It means from your eye you are covering the face of the girl without giving unusual movements. This will help you to express yourself effectively.

·         Express interest in her thoughts and opinions – It is very important to acknowledge the girl that you are actively showing interest in her thoughts. You may use words like ‘yes I agree”, “That’s true” etc. You may relate some examples too.

·         Compliment her – Girls are very fond of getting compliments, they just love it. Moreover, they can easily differentiate between compliment or someone being flirty. Compliment her about her clothes, dressing sense, smile, external things. Perhaps, by getting a long conversation you may easily know what she things about and you may compliment about that. Convey your statement in slight and beautiful manner. She will definitely love it.

·         Ask about studies – In case you don’t have much to talk. Talk about her studies, that can be a general kind of discussion.

·         Don’t tease the girl – Do avoid any such step since it’s your first meeting with her, she might not understand your humor.

3. Keeping her interested:

·         Don’t go on knees to get her. They are actually very smart.

·         Keep up your confidence.

·         Stay relaxed and positive.

·         Don’t lie just to impress her.

·         Exit gracefully.